7. Make Money Fall in Love with You: How to Transform Your Relationship with Wealth, Worth, and Receiving

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What if the problem isn’t your strategy, but the way you feel about being seen, supported, and safe to receive?

If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing everything right in your business but still struggling to receive the income, ease, or flow you desire—this episode might hit you straight in the heart.

In this powerful conversation, I sit down with Morgana Rae, internationally celebrated money mentor and the creator of Financial Alchemy. She’s helped tens of thousands of women (and men) completely rewrite their money stories—not through spreadsheets and sales scripts, but by healing their relationship with love, safety, and worthiness.

Morgana went from struggling to make $100 a month to becoming a 7-figure earner—and it all started when she stopped trying to “fix” her money mindset… and decided to break up with her toxic relationship with money altogether.

This is one of the most transformative episodes we’ve ever recorded. It’s not about chasing more. It’s about becoming someone who feels safe to receive more. You ready?

The Moment Everything Changed

Morgana opens up about a time in her life when she had everything on paper: certifications, credibility, testimonials, and even a waitlist… but her income was painfully low. She was exhausted, confused, and wondering what was wrong with her.

That all changed during a call with a mentor who asked her a simple, but life-altering question:

“If your money were a person, who would it be?”

What came up wasn’t logical—it was emotional. In her mind’s eye, money became a cruel, withholding, manipulative figure—someone she would never want to be in a relationship with. And that was the moment she realized:
She had made money her enemy.

This realization cracked everything open.

Meet the Money Monster: The Version of Money You’re Subconsciously Resisting

Before you can heal your relationship with money, you have to first admit: you have one. And for many of us? It’s not great.

Morgana walks us through how most people carry deep emotional associations with money—often tied to betrayal, fear, guilt, pressure, or abandonment.

Even if you consciously want more income, your nervous system may view money as a threat. And so, you sabotage. You delay. You underprice. You avoid the work that would actually move the needle.

“Your Money Monster isn’t rational. But it is powerful. Because it’s rooted in real pain.”

In this process, you name it. You give it form. You let all the ickiness rise to the surface. And then you do what any of us would do in a toxic relationship:
You end it. Fully. Dramatically. On purpose.

Invite in the Money Honey: Your New Relationship with Wealth, Safety, and Love

Once the monster is destroyed (and Morgana means really destroyed), it creates a vacuum—a space you get to fill.

This is where your Money Honey comes in.

“This version of money isn’t something to chase. It’s someone who adores you. Who wants to support you. Who respects your values.”

Morgana guides her clients to create a Money Honey that feels safe, devoted, and deeply aligned with love. Think of this version of money like a dream partner—one who sees your brilliance, holds space for your goals, and supports you every step of the way.

And here’s the kicker: once your nervous system feels safe with money, things start flowing. Opportunities show up. Aligned actions become obvious. Pricing shifts naturally. Boundaries solidify. It’s like your whole energy changes—because it does.

The 6 Steps to Financial Alchemy

Morgana breaks down her full 6-step process with so much clarity and care, making it easy to apply in your own life.

  1. Uncover the Root Cause
    This isn’t about “money blocks”—it’s about uncovering old traumas and emotional truths that created a belief that money = unsafe. Often, this starts with childhood or relationship dynamics.

  2. Personify the Money Monster
    Let your subconscious speak. What does money look like when it feels withholding or judgmental? What emotions come up?

  3. Destroy the Monster
    Literally destroy it. In your mind, with fire, knives, explosions—whatever it takes. This is your chance to fully reject the old identity.

  4. Meet the Money Honey
    Invite in the version of money you want to be in relationship with. Loving. Protective. Loyal. Present.

  5. Have a Real Conversation
    Ask: “What do you need from me?” Then listen. Really listen. This isn’t just visualization. This is a relationship.

  6. Take Aligned Action
    Anchor your new energy into reality. Sometimes it’s big (raising prices). Sometimes it’s playful (booking the trip, saying yes to something joyful). It doesn’t matter what it is—what matters is that it’s a yes to you.

Why Love Comes First—and Money Follows

We often try to logic our way into more income. But Morgana reminds us: money stress is identity-level stress. It’s tied to survival, safety, and worthiness.

“Change happens at the speed of safety.”

When you create an identity where money is safe to receive, your whole relationship to visibility, selling, and showing up shifts. Suddenly, the parts of your business that felt heavy feel lighter. You're no longer operating from fear—you’re operating from love.

🔖 Episode Timestamps

00:04:30 – The turning point: everything looked successful—but money still wasn’t flowing
00:09:30 – The “aha” moment: personifying money for the first time
00:14:00 – Breaking up with the money monster
00:17:30 – Creating your Money Honey and feeling safe with receiving
00:24:00 – Morgana’s full 6-step Financial Alchemy method
00:35:00 – How love, not logic, creates financial transformation
00:42:00 – The identity shift that fuels aligned income
00:54:00 – Client stories: from $100 months to $10k+ days
01:00:00 – Anchoring change with playful, bold, aligned action

💛 Ready to Rewrite Your Money Story?

Learn more about Morgana’s transformational retreats, books, and resources:
🌍 www.BeAMoneyGoddess.com
📲 Follow Morgana on Instagram: @morganarae

📥 And if you’re growing your audience but still struggling to convert?
Grab my free Subscribers to Sales Checklist here:
👉 https://www.thecopyshift.com/stschecklist

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Share it with a friend who needs a money breakthrough—and tag us on Instagram:
@haileykrajewski + @morganarae

Let’s start treating wealth as a relationship worth healing.

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