3. Step Into Your “Holy F***” Era with Leanne Sia
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How to Own Your Big Deal Energy, Silence Your Inner Critic, and Create a Life You Actually Feel
Let’s be real: you can have the title, the curated Instagram feed, even the dream paycheck… and still feel completely disconnected from your life.
That’s exactly where this week’s guest, Leanne Sia, found herself—until she made one powerful decision: to stop shrinking and start owning her Big Deal Energy.
Leanne is a high-vibe coach, speaker, and founder of the “Holy F*** Era”—her signature approach to helping powerhouse women stop blending in and start stepping into the version of themselves who knows she’s a big deal.
This episode is part pep talk, part permission slip. We talk through what’s actually keeping you stuck, how to shift your inner narrative, and why your next level has less to do with strategy—and more to do with who you believe you are.
Yes, there’s some spicy language. But there’s also deep wisdom and loving truth that’ll meet you right where you are.
From Luxury Life to Breakdown in a Bathroom Stall
Leanne opens up about her “everything looks perfect, but nothing feels right” moment.
At the time, she was living in Dubai, earning a dream salary, with a housekeeper five days a week and not a chore in sight. But beneath it all? Daily panic attacks and a deep sense of unworthiness.
It wasn’t until a therapist told her, “You don’t think you deserve this life” that everything began to shift.
That one realization sparked a self-worth journey that didn’t just change her life—it redefined how she showed up for her daughters, her business, and herself.
The Holy F*** Era (and Why Every Woman Deserves One)
The phrase wasn’t crafted in a branding meeting—it was born out of real results with real women.
Leanne’s clients would hit their biggest goals—quitting their jobs, building waitlists, landing dream clients—and blurt out, “Holy f***, I can’t believe this is happening.”
That’s what your Holy F*** Era is all about: not just setting bold goals, but actually becoming the version of you who makes them inevitable.
It’s more than a moment. It’s a whole vibe shift.
You Can’t Strategy Your Way Out of Self-Doubt
One of the most powerful lessons in this episode?
You could have the most polished strategy in the world, but if you don’t believe in the woman behind it, it won’t land.
Leanne shares the three areas she helps clients audit to activate their Big Deal Energy:
Your Output: What are you putting out into the world (your website, your feed, your energy)?
Your Input: What thoughts and beliefs are running the show?
Your Environment: Is your space, routine, and support system aligned with the version of you you’re becoming?
If the answer is “not quite,” this is your invitation to realign.
Your Inner Critic Isn’t a Truth Teller (She’s Just Loud)
Leanne drops a visual that’ll stick with you: imagine you’re dragging around a heavy trunk of outdated beliefs—many of which you never even chose.
She walks us through how to unpack them, challenge them, and rewrite your inner script with something far more empowering.
Because as Leanne says, “Your inner critic doesn’t care if you’re successful—she just wants you to stay small.”
What Would Your Big Deal Energy Do?
This might be the simplest but most transformative question in the whole episode.
Feeling stuck? Second-guessing your next move? Ask: “What would you in your Big Deal Energy do right now?”
And then… do that.
It’s a practice in embodiment. And the more often you do it, the easier it gets.
Leanne shares how this mantra helped her clients show up for life-changing moments with boldness, power, and unshakable confidence.
Success Isn’t Always the Loudest Thing in the Room
To wrap the episode, we talk about redefining success.
For Leanne, it’s walking her dog on a Friday with no schedule, no stress, and no one to answer to. It’s freedom. Ease. And peace. Not just more money, louder accolades, or flashy wins.
For you? It might be something else entirely.
But either way, Leanne’s message is clear:
You get to define what success looks like.
And you’re allowed to go after it without apologizing.
🔖 Episode Timestamps
00:03:12 – The breakdown behind the “perfect” life in Dubai
00:06:40 – Why self-worth is the foundation of everything
00:08:50 – The birth of the “Holy F*** Era”
00:11:00 – The 3-part Big Deal Energy audit
00:15:30 – Challenging your inner critic and rewriting your story
00:20:15 – The question that changes everything: “What would Big Deal You do?”
00:25:10 – Redefining success on your terms
00:29:50 – Leanne’s activation audios and daily rituals
🎧 Want to Activate Your Big Deal Energy?
Leanne’s free Big Deal Energy Activation Audios are a must-listen. Whether you’re powering up for a big day or crawling out of a low one, these 5-minute tracks help you shift your energy and show up fully as the woman you’re becoming.
👉 Grab them now at https://www.leannesia.com/
And come say hey on Instagram: @leannesia
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Let’s get more women in their Holy F*** Era.
